Let’s start with a little quiz…
Are you a great friend or an annoying cousin?
As in… oh geez, there’s that (insert name of your annoying third cousin).
He’s the one who hasn’t seen you in years, but within minutes of being in the same room again is pitching you on joining some pyramid scheme, or trying to sell you a timeshare, or hinting that he needs a job and you seem like the perfect employer.
Or are you that great friend who stays in touch with your bestie? Keeps in touch just because you care. Shares things that surprise and delight on a regular basis. Is funny and entertaining… always good for a laugh and a shoulder to cry on… sometimes in the same phone call.
What type of emailer are you?
If you’ve got an email list of 10 or more people, it is time to stop being Captain Stinky Cousin Pants and become a great friend to your list. By staying in regular communication when you aren’t promoting something or asking for a sale, your list will be ready and waiting for when you do want them to take action.
I’ve been emailing my list regularly for years now. They know I care. They know I give value and they know that when I do sell something, it is going to only be something I have already vetted.
And I love staying in touch with them.
But how often to email?
I am a proponent of daily emailing… that’s right, daily. Just like a daily check-in with a friend, a daily email helps nurture a relationship.
I know it can seem overwhelming, but once you get into a rhythm of sending a daily email, it becomes second nature. You start looking for things in your life to email about.
Here’s the format I like to follow:
- Subject line that creates curiosity
- Personalized greeting
- Tell a story of something that happened
- Tie it into a business lesson
- Mention how it relates to a product, program, or service we offer, or an upcoming event
- P.S. to one of our programs or events
Below I’ve included a sample of my last few emails so you can get a sense of the flow of the daily post. They aren’t long, but they keep in touch and share little moments of my life along with things my audience will value.
If daily seems overwhelming, start 3x a week and if that’s too much, once a week works. Staying consistent is necessary in building a good relationship with your list, just like building a good friendship. (No flakey friends allowed.)
Ready to start a friend campaign to your list? Let me know in the comments.
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Email 1
Subject: What’s your room number?
Email 2
Subject: Gift Inside, NAME
Email 3
Subject: About that subject line…
Email 4
Subject: He was cursing like a drunken sailor
Email 5
Subject: What happened when I spilled my entire drink in his lap
Hey, NAME,
Great information. Really like the examples. Thanks!
Thrilled to hear it, Kathy!
Love the concept! Will definitely use the templates 🙂
You got this, Teresa!
Thanks for a great message! Points out the importance of a headline….your choice of the word “friend” in the headline prompted me to open this email from you. I have to admit that I miss and don’t open every one…often bringing up a sense of “guilt” that I’m falling behind and not staying with it….
I will need to spend some time with this one for implementation….
Thanks again for the stated and experienced message..
That’s great to know, Steve. I try to offer value in every email I send so I hope you can schedule some time each week to go through them all.
It seems so very natural for you. It’s that natural I think I need to work on. Thanks, Kim!
You’re welcome, Cathy. You’ll get there for sure.
who is your favorite? Buzz Lightyear, Jesse the cowgirls or Woody the cowboy? you´ve got a friend in me too.
Ha! Love this and all 3 of them. We travel to Disney multiple times a year.
It’s the intimidation of the unsubscribers. After emailing once a week, always with a gift…pdfed list, one page guide, blog article or touching base with a new bit of ‘just out’ news along with a PS giving away my ebook or opportunity to buy a printed version ($7.99 including shipping) 10% of my 2K list usually unsubscribes. Key is I need to keep building list along with emailing out. And I do build from time to time but trick is…we really should be building as much as emailing out hu?
Janet, we get them too. It’s the nature of the beast. You constantly need to be adding to your list. But yes, we email daily.
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